[lovett3]

My best connections are with people I’ve worked with to do big things; start business, play in a band, build homes; we built proper simpatico solving all the issues together along the way

Everyone I “socialized with”; beers, movies, games… no longer in my life.

Solving real problems builds real connection. Everything else was staring at modernist entertainment which isn’t “real”. They are transient experiences. No group skills building sitting on our collective asses staring at the circus.