[throw4950sh06]

In this particular case, it was sort of the opposite. I'm used to her always being honest, so when she told me it's 15 minutes I trusted her 100%. She was getting a friend to rescue me, and she was counting on me trusting her and waiting at home, but unfortunately that was of no use as I went off to the city before they could even pack their things after that call.

[DiggyJohnson]

Should she have been more honest and said "X will be their shortly. I'm really worried about you, please stay put."? Just trying to follow this chain of reasoning.

[throw4950sh06]

Yes, that would work. I was really looking for confirmation, so if she said something like this the issue could be avoided. But who knows what I'd come up with 10 minutes later...

[aleph_minus_one]

> I'm used to her always being honest, so when she told me it's 15 minutes I trusted her 100%.

But she lied to you - and this lead to your dangerous chain of thoughts.