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sqeaky | 1 year ago

Isn't this taking something that should be relationship building and outsourcing to an app? How long can a relationship last when people refuse to settle the littlest of disagreements like rasonable adults?

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Johnny555|1 year ago

Deciding on dinner needn't be a disagreement, it's just another task that needs to be done in a relationship.

rendall|1 year ago

I don't see it that way. It's a potential tool that adults can use together, like a bulletin board or index cards or pen and paper.

shadowmnifold|1 year ago

I am really disagreeable person and hard to deal with but I have never had this problem.

The whole idea is just fucking dumb.

sqeaky|1 year ago

Yeah, totally, working out what is for dinner is great way to learn about people you have dinner with. What foods do they like? Why do they like, dislike, or simply cannot partake in some foods? And less direct but deeper notions like: What makes arguments happen with this person? What happens when this person lashes out on a small scale? Can I react sensibly to this person disagreeing with me?

This and a million other little nuances are super important for successful relationships.