[shrubhub]

Most people don't try hard at the gym. Most people don't try hard at music. Most people aren't comedians.

This reads like the foreword to the incel handbook.

[theclansman]

And that's obviously bad because incels are not real people with feelings.

[sethammons]

It is bad because it suffers from misattribution error, ultimately not leading to any solution and often making the situation worse. A downward spiral of misinterpreted signal

[shrubhub]

It's bad because there's a strong whiff of being entitled to someone else's body.