[bell-cot]

My own "n < 5" - everyone who has some out to me, in the past 1 1/2 decades, has frantically rushed to add some variety of "but I'm nothing like those people on the internet".

Other than "the T thing" (which matters more to me than their handedness, but less than whether they're happy with their job), they seem like ordinary people, who want to quietly live their ordinary lives. Far away from the internet's endless ideological battles.