[karmarepellent]

Actually I think the trick is to change ones own perspective on these things. Regardless of how many redundancies and how many 9's of availability your system theoretically achieves, there is always stuff that can go wrong for a variety of reasons. If things go wrong, I am faster at fixing a not-so-complex system than the more complex system that should, in theory, be more robust.

Also I have yet to experience that an outage of any kind had any negative consequences for me personally. As long as you stand by the decisions you made in the past and show a path forward, people (even the higher-ups) are going to respect that.

Anticipating every possible issue that might or might not occur during the lifetime of an application just leads to over-engineering.

I think rationalizing it a little bit may also help with the paranoia.