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Grifters, believers, grinders, and coasters

232 points| rbanffy | 1 year ago |seangoedecke.com

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[+] encoderer|1 year ago|reply
People are multi-dimensional.

I’m 42 and I’ve been all of these things at different times.

[+] joefigura|1 year ago|reply
The author makes this point.

"These aren’t immutable aspects of your personality. They’re more categories for how you approach the job of software engineering - you’ll move around between quadrants as you change your approach to work, for all the usual reasons."

[+] _gmax0|1 year ago|reply
I'll buy someone a coffee if they propose a state-space model that identifies a location on the author's plane as a function of time and incentives :^)
[+] HPsquared|1 year ago|reply
It's all contextual. Just like all the "alpha' etc stuff.
[+] crdrost|1 year ago|reply
In addition to people being multidimensional, this sort of diagram usually has a sort of "internal motion" to it.

That is, this is an instance of a diagram that you'll see repeated over and over in business texts; I personally call it a "fourbox" but I suppose "business matrix" is more common and "quadrant analysis" or something like that is even more descriptive. The idea is that you identify two different things, graph those as separate axes, label the quadrants and then tell a story about the four different labels. The Eisenhower matrix is the usual example (one axis is how close is the deadline, near vs far, the other is how much is lost by missing the deadline, a little vs a lot. The immediacy is called "urgency", the stakes are called "importance," things that are important-and-urgent should be done by you now, things that are important-not-urgent should be scheduled, things that are urgent-not-important should be delegated to someone else, and everything in the last quadrant should be safely ignored).

A "true" fourbox in my view should tell a particular story, which I call "cynefin flow" after a different iconic fourbox that told this story compellingly. According to this flow, there should be motion in a circle about the center of the axes, except that it gets interrupted at one transition between the quadrants and becomes stuck in a U-shape, unless some outside stimulus pushes it over that edge. So there is a motion I -> II -> III -> IV around the quadrants but then things get stuck in IV unless an outside stimulus pushes it back into I.

The cynefin story for the Eisenhower matrix ends with things getting stuck in not-important-not-urgent, so that is your IV quadrant. Of the two stories you can tell from there, the more compelling story is that, "Things that are important but not urgent, become important-and-urgent as the clock runs down, but then the deadline will pass and the pain becomes a sunk cost and they become unimportant-and-urgent, only to eventually fade to being unimportant-and-not-urgent, until an external stimulus acts to suddenly attach additional stakes to them and make them important again." So you have a bill (I), that bill comes due (II), you miss the deadline but still have a chance to pay it (III), and finally it gets sent to collections and impacts your credit (IV). And it sits there until either the debt expires or you're trying to get a new house, in which case it becomes Important again (I) to clean up your credit history.

Similarly with the BCG matrix, which is a fourbox with your capture of a market on one axis, the market's growth rate on a separate axis. Then the businessfolk carefully write "cash cow, question mark, star, dog" on each of these four quadrants. But what makes it a true fourbox is that your "question marks" that you invest in become "stars" as you capture their markets, then become "cash cows" as growth dries up, then become "dogs" as the market itself stagnates, until some external stimulus creates the opportunity for growth and more question marks again.

OP's diagram has "work intensity" on one axis, and a sort of "idealism-vs-pragmatism" axis for the other, and they have identified the intense pragmatist as naturally falling under a Cynefin flow into being a coasting pragmatist as they burn out. Presumably this is the accumulation point and those are the III and IV of the system, in which case some external stimulus causes coasting pragmatists to become coasting idealists, at which point they will naturally become intense idealists as their aspirations come to the fore, and then naturally become intense pragmatists as the organization fails to reward their idealism?

[+] koasterz|1 year ago|reply
> I’m 42 and I’ve been all of these things at different times.

Believer - When you first join the company and they sell you on the vision

Grinder - You work hard for a year or two to make a difference

Coaster - You realize you wont get promoted, they company will always have no money on the bonus pool, except for the execs. And that the company will go on by sheer force of momentum, not by your grinding.

Grifter - You see the company hire friend after friend of execs, friends' kids as interns, friends' wives as Executive Directors, execs' girlfriends as "Chief of Staff" - and you realize you need to get something too, so you use company time to form your own startup.

Now you repeat the cycle, except you are the person at the top and someone else goes thru these stages.

[+] syntheticnature|1 year ago|reply
I think the article sort-of says this near the end, mainly in hinting that continuous grinding can be a problem.
[+] conqrr|1 year ago|reply
Same for me at different time. But I also believe I have a natural state to gravitate if the environment provides for.
[+] maartenscholl|1 year ago|reply
The chart in the article is multi-dimensional, it has two dimensions: what you mean is time-varying.
[+] tarsinge|1 year ago|reply
Yeah I’m only in my late 30s and I’m in the same boat. Many things and mindsets can be good, it’s not about finding the absolute but finding the most appropriate one for the current context of your life.
[+] adamc|1 year ago|reply
I would say that I'm a "believer" in this terminology, but I don't think either coaster or grinder fits; depending on the task, I might be either. It's determined by how hard I find it to get going on the task, which often reflects ambiguity and lack of direction. When the task is vague, it can take a while to figure out an approach to try.

Which is, I guess, a way to say that often when I'm "coasting", I'm working -- just not as effectively as I would like. I usually feel guilty when I'm unsure what to do.

I've definitely burned out a few times.

[+] bryanlarsen|1 year ago|reply
I believe that's consistent with the author's "coaster" description. "They work enough to get the job done" which is sometimes very little, but can sometimes be a lot if that's what's necessary.

They're also a good source of slack -- "They’re also good for teams that have a lot of last-minute requests or questions". Coasters can do more work when that's what's needed. OTOH, a grinder always working at 100% can never give more.

[+] oldnewthrowaway|1 year ago|reply
https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-...

Said another way, with one fewer category, but with a clearer and more general approach.

I've never read anything better to describe nearly all organizations of a certain size.

[+] red-iron-pine|1 year ago|reply
Probably one of the best, must humorous, and dark takes on industrial psychology I've seen. I've spent a lot of time trying to disprove it, and kinda did.

It's like Freud where it doesn't really stand up to serious empirical evaluation, yet there are so many uncomfortable truths.

The author kinda loses the plot after the part about power talk, though.

[+] PaulHoule|1 year ago|reply
I am not a fan of assigning labels to people because I'm a fan of

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_semantics

A taxonomy of partial engagement in software development would be an interesting topic. I've worked at quite a few places where there was something pathological I couldn't change or where I could have worked harder but it would have created a lot of strife with people who (don't work as hard|don't work as smart|don't see the big picture|aren't careful|don't know how to write joins in SQL|learned to design software by learning answers to interview questions|...)

In a case like that you can still get stuff done with 50% engagement, getting a lot more done might not be feasible without getting the support you need from your co-workers and if you lower your standards your life gets easier and you still get something done. It can sometimes feel pretty good and it can sometimes feel like dying inside.

[+] Der_Einzige|1 year ago|reply
Quintessential example of the "Grifter" in action right here ("General Semanticists")

Why are these people always flirting with psudoscientists and charlatans?

Seriously? Why is this linking to Wilhelm Reich? Why does this look like some shit Lacan would have written? Why does this link to the devils NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming)

Why couldn't scientists in this era just stay in their fking lane and not say dumb shit?

I'm so tired of having to debunk yet another crack-pot stupid ideology from this era. This is psychoanalysis for the STEM-lord, and just as full of nonsense.

[+] jameson|1 year ago|reply
> I think a lot of programmer arguments bottom out in a cultural clash between different kinds of engineers

True. Also it should be the managements'/team leads' role to act as a midiators. It's a waste of time to constantly argue over what is "right" when all proposed solutions are functional.

Should we spend more time flushing out the unknowns? Should we launch ASAP and interate fast? Should we automate the process? Do we have data to back our assumptions?

The "culture fit" is not superficial and I've always been advocate of fire fast if one is culturally unfit because it slows down everyone

[+] mckn1ght|1 year ago|reply
You are talking about a third dimension that I thought of immediately upon reading this, which is risk aversion, mentioned long ago in https://gist.github.com/cornchz/3313150 (the original is no longer accessible, thanks Google+)

I'm just trying to imagine the different traits for liberal vs conservative grifters (thought leader vomit vs machiavellian connivance), believers (thought leader vomit vs constant market research), grinders (ship lots of code vs write lots of tests) and coasters (shitpost all day on random slack channels vs do the bare minimum to appear to be working)

[+] dylan604|1 year ago|reply
"and this article is really aimed at people who are trying to have a bit more empathy for the assholes they work with."

and now you have my attention. only, i'm reading it from the asshole's perspective.

[+] wccrawford|1 year ago|reply
The trick is that there's actually assholes in all 4 quads. And nice people, too.
[+] mckn1ght|1 year ago|reply
All models are wrong but some are useful and all that. Now I just want to see a megamodel combining this, the software "political" axis w.r.t. risk aversion (that I mentioned in https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42320862), and finally, a summary of how each node interacts with each other node given various circumstances like whether it's a collaborative or conflicting situation (a concept I learned from a required Strength Deployment Index workshop; mentioned in https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42321007), to prescribe various incentives or strategies to unstick the participants and keep them flowing.

Maybe throw in some flavor from the 6 types of working genius (WIDGET: wonder, invention, discernment, galvanizing, enablement, tenacity) and meyers-briggs personality types for fun.

[+] parpfish|1 year ago|reply
That chart is confusing because they’ve put the quadrant labels on the axes so a) the axis dimensions are unknown and b) there are two labels on each quadrant
[+] wccrawford|1 year ago|reply
0 is in the middle of the chart. The extremes are the words on that axis.
[+] gipp|1 year ago|reply
Those are the labels for each end of each axis, not for the quadrants. Believer/grifter is one axis, coaster/grinder is the other.
[+] ryandrake|1 year ago|reply
Yea, the quadrant visualization does not make sense. What is the bottom-left quadrant? Coaster or Grifter or both? What about the top-right? None of the above? I can't figure it out.
[+] dowager_dan99|1 year ago|reply
"aimed at people who are trying to have a bit more empathy for the assholes they work with."

I love it!

[+] Aeolun|1 year ago|reply
I think the real problem is that it's impossible to work as a believer/grinder in any large organisation (e.g. filled with grifters). It's not sustainable to work as a grinder for a long time in the first place, but it's especially terrible when it's unrewarding.
[+] hasbot|1 year ago|reply
No mention of all the "deadwood:" people that don't contribute anything at all. People you're loath to assign anything to because they've repeatedly shown that they're incapable of finishing the simplest task. People one would think would be first on the cutting block at the next layoff.
[+] pmg102|1 year ago|reply
Is it not just a question of what you're optimising for? Excluding the outliers (the lazy, incompetent, or geniuses), most can choose what to optimise for:

  - free time, low stress, calm life
  - fulfillment through delivering functionality
  - fulfillment through pride in the craft
  - money and status through career progression
  - social validation through relationships with coworkers/bosses
[+] throw646577|1 year ago|reply
"Grifter" is a terrible word choice for the "personality type" in the description.

Grifting is always a form of aberrant behaviour -- manipulative, cruel, deceitful, larcenous. Unless you are Humpty Dumpty, I don't know why you would choose a word for a quadrant that requires you to clarify that you do not mean to associate its actual meaning with the behaviours in that quadrant.

"Politician" (albeit with a small p) is a much, much better word for the personality type in the description.

Politics is only sometimes a form of aberrant behaviour.

[+] mattcantstop|1 year ago|reply
I agree with this wholeheartedly. I fed ChatGPT the description and they said a name without such a negative connotation was "navigator." I think this is better. It also recommended "politician" as well. I think navigator is fitting. They let the structure of the system they find themselves in determine their path. The system navigates for them.
[+] debacle|1 year ago|reply
Please don't try and redefine terms like "grifter." It is a very important word, especially in today's political climate.
[+] isk517|1 year ago|reply
Yeah, grifter is a term for someone running a scam. Using a term like 'Ladder Climber' or even 'Ostentatious' would be a better fit with the definition provided.
[+] dboreham|1 year ago|reply
The believer/grifter axis might be what psychologists call "external" vs "internal" locus of control.
[+] JohnMakin|1 year ago|reply
IME grifter/grinders get rapidly promoted in large companies that allow upward movement. I've not worked with many principals that were not like this.
[+] dowager_dan99|1 year ago|reply
grinders - really? I've seen the opposite. They tend to be taken for granted and not recognized is my experience.
[+] paradoxyl|1 year ago|reply
He should've thought harder about the names, particularly "grifter." What he describes is not even remotely close to what grifting means.
[+] xianshou|1 year ago|reply
Aha! Finally, a perfect spiritual complement to the Gervais principle:

https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-...

According to Rao, every company survives by blending some combination of the following populations, varying by stage of lifecycle:

- Sociopath = people who know the game and play it to win

- Clueless = people who buy and spread the story the company is selling

- Loser = people who accept the wage bargain, generally exchanging low devotion for minimal advancement

This maps nicely to OP's quadrants:

- Sociopath = grinder-grifter

- Clueless = grinder-believer

- Loser = coaster-grifter

- (Coaster-believers get fired.)

[+] oldnewthrowaway|1 year ago|reply
agreed! (see my other parent comment).

one day Rao will get the recognition as the leading modern worklife philosopher he so richly deserves.

[+] dave333|1 year ago|reply
Natural career progression is through initial growth (believer/grinder), plateau (slow transition to coaster/grifter), mid-life crisis (believer/grinder in different area/personal life), crash landing/retirement (coaster/grifter).