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> Why are you "struggling with it"? > your attitude towards it is the problem.

Totally agree this the best way to handle a lot of issues in your life. But that doesn't stop it from being a negative experience. If you have something that you liked about yourself and lose it, it's negative.

You can overcome that (and I feel somewhat better about it than I have previously), but doesn't somehow make it a positive experience.

It would be better if you could spend that time and mental energy on making your life better, instead of dealing with a random flaw in your genes.