[peterkelly]

Sounds like you need a better partner

[JohnnyMarcone]

You shouldn't jump to judgement without knowing any of the details.

[somenameforme]

Saying the quiet part out loud, but yeah this is a very weird relationship where you have a partner who wouldn't be outright enthusiastic about you pursuing something you really want to, so long as your family can still live comfortably.

[protonbob]

Being a good father/husband requires a lot more than putting food on the table.