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razille | 1 year ago

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nar001|1 year ago

Probably not intended as such but "actual female woman" is also a bit disrespectful, since it implies that trans women aren't "actual female women", why not use cis? It gets your point across and doesn't imply anything else.

mrweasel|1 year ago

> why not use cis?

Because some people don't use that term to describe themselves either, even if that is what they biologically are. CIS is a pretty good term, because it's very technically correct. Sadly many have been on the receiving end of debates where it is used a a slur, and considers it hurtful.

account42|1 year ago

The truth is not disrespectful.

tordrt|1 year ago

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userbinator|1 year ago

I think a lot of people just don't pay attention to the domain name or anything else besides the actual content.

razille|1 year ago

I agree that much of this is unconscious bias. But it still grates.

dominicrose|1 year ago

Then why do we even talk about "pronouns" and don't just say: "BTW she's a woman not a man." Simpler times.

stavros|1 year ago

> I mean it's bad enough that most people in this thread saw a cool engineering project and made a default assumption of male.

Is your issue with the fact that people assumed the author was male, specifically, or with the fact that people assumed at all?

aussieguy1234|1 year ago

I see, I guess this is the other scenario where wrong pronouns can be used.