[razille]

I agree that much of this is unconscious bias. But it still grates.

[nicbou]

I do think it matters that people default to male. I wouldn’t want people to keep calling me “she” because I happen to be in a woman-dominated field. I understand why one would find this grating.

[HeatrayEnjoyer]

But not that's not the case for many of us. We do know who we are, and an increasingly violent sect want us to bury it and pretend otherwise.