[SSchick]

Plenty of videos around, default rethoric is to 'give them time, they said it would hurt at first' which sounds awfully close what people in abusive relationships would say now that I think about it.

[HKH2]

It also sounds like delayed gratification.

[ok_dad]

Masochistic edging, perhaps.

[MrMcCall]

Or just very stupid, hateful losers.