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taraharris | 10 months ago
I suggest getting a job that you like and is low stress. I spend all my free time studying everything there is to know about human interaction. there are all kinds of subtleties in dating an I'm learning the purpose of each structure. it's like a clutch
if you reveal your hand too fast, you dump the clutch and stall the entine and maybe jerk forward. if you do the the opposite, that's called riding the clutch and in this analogy you wait too long to act toward your nascent goal and the other party loses whatever interest they may have had
you have to constantly re-evaluate this after every single interaction
you have to take an interest in their lives and anticipate their needs
smt88|10 months ago
clusterfook|10 months ago