[WuxiFingerHold]

Yes, my experience as well. Last year I had to make a decision for the stack of a small app at work that needs a SPA (3D viewing large data sets using threejs and agGrid if anyone cares) and with long term stability as very high prio.

Long story short: I ended up choosing ASP.NET Core with Minimal APIs. The main reason was indeed EF Core as ORM, which I consider as one if not the best ORM. In the Node world there's so much promise (Prisma, Drizzle, ...) but also so much churn.