[dtdynasty]

Overall I agree with the point that people don't take the effort to change themselves and connect with another human being.

> The only way to establish relationships is to be real

Personally, I found emotional dissonance when people tell me this phrase. For a long time, acting like myself has ostracized me from other people and built shallow relationships. It's only when I didn't act like myself and faked it until it became a habit did I build deeper friendships.

It's emotionally difficult when your natural way of acting is not accepted.