[elp]

Kids especially once the second one arrives kill your money, your sex life, your free time and they will probably destroy at least one item that has sentimental value to you.

Feel squeamish about bodily fluids? Don't worry the kids will cure you. Nothing like trying to do a Matrix style bullet time dodge when you are changing a nappy and the cold air makes your son let loose with a stream of pee.

And then they look at you and giggle and the world is perfect. Wouldn't change it for the word, but enjoy life first then have the kids. Its not worse just very very different and you can't go back.

[Fire-Dragon-DoL]

You get what you lost back. You do learn patience "I can come to the movie theater in 4 years!" is something I told my friends at some point

[marjancek]

> Its not worse just very very different and you can't go back.

But kids eventually grow up, and you get back most of your free time.

You might not have the same energy nor desires at that point though.

[zs234465234165]

Second kid a few months ago, $$$, sex life better than ever