[zild3d]

> I want an AI that I have similar opinions to, which is obviously tough. It's like working with someone on their first day.

Most of what you're describing does apply to humans on the first day, and ais on their first day. If you aren't capturing these preferences somewhere and giving it to either a human or the ai, then why would they somehow know your preferences? For ai, the standard thats forming is you create some markdown file(s) with these so they only need to be explained once, and auto provided as context.