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AdkamEup | 7 months ago

> I don't know if it's virtue-signalling, sexual frustration, or something else.

I think de-sensitization [*] may play a big role here; I'm convinced that the more porn you look at, the higher your threshold goes. I've not consumed any porn for years now (as I write in my other comment), and I find the lady in the picture extremely sexual. Yes, she's not suggesting / soliciting / provoking; she is just standing there. I agree. Yet she's no less sexual for that fact.

[*] edited comment for fixing my wrong use of the term

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nemomarx|7 months ago

I think I would agree that she's sexy / attractive depending on terms, but I don't think that makes it a suggestive or sexual photo strictly I guess. I can be turned on by a partner fully clothed and showing a little shoulder, if I'm in the right mood! But that wouldn't make it a sexy outfit, I'm biased by my emotions about her.

I think this is why there's a lot of pedantry and "know it when I see it" to the discussion