[kiliancs]

I like Ecto's approach in Elixir. Bring SQL to the language to handle security, and then build opt-in solutions to real problems in app-land like schema structs and changesets. Underneath, everything is simple (e.g. queries are structs, remain composable), and at the driver layer it taks full advantage of the BEAM.

It's hard to find similarly mature and complete solutions. In the JS/TS world, I like where Drizzle is going, but there is an unavoidable baseline complexity level from the runtime and the type system (not to criticize type systems, but TS was not initially built with this level of sophistication in mind, and it shows in complexity, even if it is capable).

[OkayPhysicist]

Ecto is a gold-standard ORM, in no small part because it doesn't eat your database, nor your codebase. It lives right at the intersection, and does it's job well.