[matrix87]

I'm convinced there's no way around this mob-like behavior. So much of our standing in society depends on things where there is no due process

The only way around this is to just keep stuff compartmentalized (work vs non-work, social group x vs social group y, relationships vs family, etc)

Or else certain kinds of people will form these "bullshit networks" that are sort of like mafias. Then they use the leverage that comes from it to bully other people around. It's the same network that amplifies a cancellation attempt

I've seen this play out in offices, friend groups, over extended family, etc. The best way to address it is to spot this kind of person, keep them compartmentalized, and give yourself the ability to walk away at any time as a check on their behavior. Or else there's no real bound on how awful they can be

[profstasiak]

stay anonymous in your work / social life.

don't become influencer, don't become household name. Slowly work on getting rich without getting on anyones radar.

if at your company someone accuses you of ill behaviour - you can just move on and find another job.

As you are nobody, nooone will write online about you with your name (unless they are 100% crazy or you are really a scum).

Seems to me cancellation is most dangerous for "famous" people. Conference speakers / influencers / people that appear on TV