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griffiths | 6 months ago

What kind of massive memory problems? I might have this but didn't think to attribute it to burnout.

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ModernMech|6 months ago

When I burned out I experienced skill regression and short term memory loss. Like, an inability to remember specific events of the day before, inability to perform skills I had done for decades like play an instrument. Took over a year to stabilize and return to normal.

bluefirebrand|6 months ago

Yes, this is extremely similar to my experience

I cannot remember events, conversations, or details about important things. I have partially lost my ability to code, because I get partway through implementing a feature and forget what pieces I've done and which pieces still need to be done

I can still write it, but the quality of my work has plummeted, which is part of why I'm off on leave now

griffiths|6 months ago

Mine is more of a long term memory loss. Inability to recall some memorable events from months or even a year ago. I’ll definitely check or go talk with someone.

mrbombastic|6 months ago

Also asking for a friend…

bluefirebrand|6 months ago

Really sorry to hear that

All I can suggest is see a doctor as soon as possible and talk to them about it

bluefirebrand|6 months ago

Difficult to explain because it's inconsistent

But I am struggling to remember things I did not used to struggle with

Going to an event on a weekend with my wife and completely forgetting that we ran into a friend there. Not just "oh yeah I forgot we saw them", like feeling my wife is lying to me when she tells me we saw them. Texting them to ask and they agree we saw each other

These are people I trust with my life so I believe they would not gaslight me, my own memory has just failed

Many examples like this, just completely blacking out things. Not forgetting everything, but blacking out large pieces of my daily life. Even big things