[CodinM]

The last bit - don’t tell people. Statistically most won’t reach their end goals, the few that do have reasonable chances of mental breakdowns and or other mental anguishes since - as the philosphers nailed a long time ago - the journey is actually what matters, the destination isn’t.

(Got where I wanted, the fact that I didn’t want enough and could re-set goals helped but still not great to reach the self imposed dream goal.)