[jrajav]

Dumb frat-boy innuendos count as personality now, huh?

Let's just leave aside the fact that the name genuinely made many people uncomfortable and unwelcome there (it did), it was also just teenage and immature. There's ways to inject personality and fun into a social experience without giggling about sex. Talk about lowest common denominator...

[anal_reactor]

something something "things I don't find funny are objectively bad and wrong and you're a bad person, be a boring serious miserable adult like everyone else" something something

[efilife]

> Dumb frat-boy innuendos count as personality now, huh?

There are many personalities. Not everything has to be mature

[anal_reactor]

I feel like there's confusion regarding the word "mature". It's supposed to mean that someone has lots of experience and draws knowledge from it, but in reality often people use the word "mature" to describe a certain specific societal ideal of a person that we're supposed to grow into.

The problem is that societal consesus is often wrong, and that image of a perfectly mature person actually does have a lot of problems with it. Every generation discovers this, and redefines that ideal.

40 years ago in my country a "mature man" was expected to take part in alcohol drinking contests until blackout. Nowadays a "mature man" is expected to drink as little alcohol as possible.

Neither attitude is actually about learning and forming a personal, informed opinion, both of them are about following whatever is currently in fashion.

[hulitu]

> There are many personalities. Not everything has to be mature

Is a "mature personality" mature ? How do you test for it ? /s

[account42]

> Dumb frat-boy innuendos count as personality now, huh?

Yes, they do.