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sigilis | 4 months ago
It’s not fake importance, it’s just taking advantage of the fact that you want to be seen as dependable and effective to other people.
sigilis | 4 months ago
It’s not fake importance, it’s just taking advantage of the fact that you want to be seen as dependable and effective to other people.
jbstack|4 months ago
I don't agree with this though. If someone is waiting for me to do something that I've promised, and I don't do it, I'm going to suffer the harm of stress, guilt, shame, etc. related to breaking my promise and people thinking I'm unreliable. I think this idea only works if we define "harm" in a very narrow sense to exclude the types of harms that come from the "important" task that we're going to deliberately avoid doing.
sigilis|4 months ago
Furthermore, what an effective human is also something that you have to define for yourself.
Procrastination is considered a negative trait for a reason.