top | item 45830127 (no title) bluedays | 3 months ago It’s okay for you to not get everything. This one is simple, it’s just not for you. You don’t get it because it wasn’t built for you. discuss order hn newest scubbo|3 months ago > Can someone offer an explanation...? I don't mean this in a crass way [...] What's the upside?They weren't saying that it wasn't OK - they were just asking for an explanation from someone for whom it _was_ built scubbo|3 months ago I wouldn't usually have responded, but "treating a question as an attack or criticism" is a particular bugbear of mine. We can't grow, learn, or understand one another if questions are by-default treated with hostility or defensiveness. load replies (1)
scubbo|3 months ago > Can someone offer an explanation...? I don't mean this in a crass way [...] What's the upside?They weren't saying that it wasn't OK - they were just asking for an explanation from someone for whom it _was_ built scubbo|3 months ago I wouldn't usually have responded, but "treating a question as an attack or criticism" is a particular bugbear of mine. We can't grow, learn, or understand one another if questions are by-default treated with hostility or defensiveness. load replies (1)
scubbo|3 months ago I wouldn't usually have responded, but "treating a question as an attack or criticism" is a particular bugbear of mine. We can't grow, learn, or understand one another if questions are by-default treated with hostility or defensiveness. load replies (1)
scubbo|3 months ago
They weren't saying that it wasn't OK - they were just asking for an explanation from someone for whom it _was_ built
scubbo|3 months ago