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solfox | 3 months ago

Looks amazing! Reminds me of a funny reddit thread about a man who built a fiber optic star ceiling for his daughter. The top comment was "First child?". :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/DIY/comments/8g8pce/fiberoptic_star...

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Brajeshwar|3 months ago

And then the things you do to redeem your guilt for the second child is a whole interesting area.

Bengalilol|3 months ago

Hi Brajeshwar (back to the old flashcoders days). Children grow up and in the end you get the full orchestra ^^

solfox|3 months ago

When I first saw the starfield post, I had one kid. I was building her all sorts of cool stuff: brio table, custom childrens book, etc. So naturally, I disbelieved the assertion that my second child would get anything less than my first. Alas, the insight is spot on - for all your good intentions, the second child gets shafted. I think it's just one of those things you have to experience to get it.

sroussey|3 months ago

And then they give up by the fourth. Guess which one I was, lol.

gwbas1c|3 months ago

Don't assume: Could be an only child, or the spouse is stay-at-home, or the author has family wealth and doesn't need a full time job.

prodigycorp|3 months ago

could also be the first child ;)

hnlmorg|3 months ago

I do get your sentiment, but you could have picked some better examples:

> Could be an only child

In which case, odds are that they're also the first child ;)

> or the spouse is stay-at-home

Which is a full-time job in itself

> or the author has family wealth and doesn't need a full time job.

which is far far less likely than the assumption you're rebuttelling