[chimeracoder]

> It does not sound as such if you read the content of the post. It's hardly a misconception to suggest that gay men do not generally fall in love with women.

Aside from the fact that this premise is incorrect, it's also inapplicable, because, as far as the essay mentions, the father never said he was gay.

[James_K]

How do you know the father never said he was gay? He may well have said that to the man he enjoyed dating as opposed to the wife whom he clearly didn't like very much.

[chimeracoder]

> How do you know the father never said he was gay?

I don't, which is why I didn't say that. I said:

> as far as the essay mentions, the father never said he was gay.