[chimeracoder]

> How do you know the father never said he was gay?

I don't, which is why I didn't say that. I said:

> as far as the essay mentions, the father never said he was gay.

[James_K]

The essay mentions the father being gay, reasonable to assume he said it. Unless you think he was bisexual, but I'm willing to bet you don't actually think that and this is just you being silly and you do actually think he's gay.