[neetle]

You do have a little fault here, but it’s marginal vs his lifetime choices, and his lack of understanding of his limits. There should be enough room for forgiveness in all of that.

I get it, I got friends and family that have completed suicide and it’s hard to not think about what I could have done differently.

[throwawaylaptop]

That's how I see it. Ive always felt a lot worse for the daughter too.

[IAmBroom]

I really hate the fat-shaming going on here.

Yeah, he died. Yeah, he was out of shape.

He wanted to keep his daughter safe, and trying to do so cost him his life. He did something heroic.

What have you done at that level of importance?

[eudamoniac]

I have gone to the gym multiple times per week for many many years so that I can remain a physically capable parent to my children, and not inflict upon them my premature disablement or death.