top | item 46268566 (no title) magarnicle | 2 months ago Part of the reason offering suggestions is 'wrong' is because it implies that they haven't tried to think of solutions to their problem. You are unwittingly implying that you are smarter than they are, even if that is not your intention. discuss order hn newest tbossanova|2 months ago Yeah. Step 1 is basically to say “damn, that sucks … what do you think you might do?” (or other clarifying questions). wisty|2 months ago If feel like only someone who is kind of dumb or insecure would think that ...Smart people will even talk to a rubber duck to solve problems, because sometimes there's something obvious you missed. IAmBroom|2 months ago You just labeled a large portion of humanity "dumb or insecure". Yay you. load replies (1)
tbossanova|2 months ago Yeah. Step 1 is basically to say “damn, that sucks … what do you think you might do?” (or other clarifying questions).
wisty|2 months ago If feel like only someone who is kind of dumb or insecure would think that ...Smart people will even talk to a rubber duck to solve problems, because sometimes there's something obvious you missed. IAmBroom|2 months ago You just labeled a large portion of humanity "dumb or insecure". Yay you. load replies (1)
IAmBroom|2 months ago You just labeled a large portion of humanity "dumb or insecure". Yay you. load replies (1)
tbossanova|2 months ago
wisty|2 months ago
Smart people will even talk to a rubber duck to solve problems, because sometimes there's something obvious you missed.
IAmBroom|2 months ago