[Firehawke]

Ditto. Every time I get a "Hey, you should send your father a happy birthday message!" it's a stab to the heart over someone dead over 12 years now.

[sejje]

I don't get those, so there's definitely a setting you can change fwiw

[leftbehinds]

oh yeah, he should spend his time figuring out some settings. and lucky him the behavior of that setting might change without notice, so he should also read all the terms updates and keep current on whats what.

[jacquesm]

Victim blaming detected.