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electriclove | 1 month ago

Same, what is the risk/reward for someone who is and plans to be monogamous. Young or old. Cost not a concern. Give me the info and let me decide for myself, my kids, my parents.

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daveungerer|1 month ago

> Same, what is the risk/reward for someone who is and plans to be monogamous. Young or old. Cost not a concern. Give me the info and let me decide for myself, my kids, my parents.

Did I read this correctly? You are going to decide for your children based on their plans to be monogamous?

And you’re also going to decide for your parents? I can only assume you’re in the unfortunate situation where your parents are no longer capable of making decisions?

electriclove|1 month ago

My wife and I are definitely going to decide for my kids while they are under 18. Not you, not the state

If there is a benefit for my gen and my parents, then why wouldn’t we consider it?

NikolaNovak|1 month ago

I don't want to assume, so I'll ask if you're willing to share - are you making the implicit assumption that your kids are and/or will be monogamous, and is that assumption a key factor in your decision on their vaccinations?

electriclove|1 month ago

The CDC recommendation to get it at 11 or 12 does not make sense to me. I know they aren’t having sex - and I know that some kids do. We will discuss, together, the pros/cons as they get older to see if it makes sense. As they get older, they’ll make these decisions themselves. Until then, I’m weighing the pros/cons and in our case, it doesn’t seem they are at risk in the near future.

LorenPechtel|1 month ago

And herein lies the problem--you are trying to decree their sexuality. Not your choice.

electriclove|1 month ago

Are you a parent? We might just be raised differently. And I can accept that you might raise your kids differently.