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hooverd | 1 month ago

Plus, lots of neurodivergent people are acutely unaware of their own shortcomings and blame everything on those awful neurotypicals.

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steve_adams_86|1 month ago

Totally. A prominent feature of ADHD is a staggering lack of awareness of the ADHD, for example. Very little progress can be made when you externalize blame for a condition you aren't aware of and don't understand. Speaking from experience.

My worst features as a software developer have always been byproducts of neurodivergence and that lack of awareness.

There are also good features and I know I'm useful to have around for system design and development. I just wouldn't say I'm better. I'm complimentary to others, not better. That's why we build systems as teams.

danaris|1 month ago

While I feel that this is a little unfair on people with ADHD, it's definitely very true that it's a disorder heavily characterized by an inability to practice mindfulness. As such, it can be nearly impossible, especially from the inside, and most especially in the moment, to determine when Something I Did Wrong was because of ADHD, or because I've been too cavalier about things like planning and note-taking.

gorgabal|1 month ago

In my experience there are either acutely unaware or too aware which then leads to insecurity and self-sabotaging behavior.

Speaking from my own neurodivergent experience: I tend to be a bit slower and get distracted easily, but when circumstances are optimal (silent office, clear expectations, etc) I can function on about the same level as my neurotypical peers.

While I don't 'blame' neurotypicals, I do recognize that most office environments are not that accessible for me and other neurodivergent people.