[fleeting900]

I’m not going to comment on whether I think you’re right or wrong, your opinion is legitimate.

But just to note that this and similar opinions in the thread confirm what I’ve experienced, both as a SINK/DINK and as a parent.

More often than not it’s the SINKs/DINKs that disappear off the face of the earth and lose interest in participating in the suddenly very different lives of their new parent friends, and not the other way around.