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Per your point 4, some current hyped work is pushing hard in this direction [1, 2, 3]. The basic idea is to think of attention as a way of implementing an associative memory. Variants like SDPA or gated linear attention can then be derived as methods for optimizing this memory online such that a particular query will return a particular value. Different attention variants correspond to different ways of defining how the memory produces a value in response to a query, and how we measure how well the produced value matches the desired value.

Some of the attention-like ops proposed in this new work are most simply described as implementing the associative memory with a hypernetwork that maps keys to values with weights that are optimized at test time to minimize value retrieval error. Like you suggest, designing these hypernetworks to permit efficient implementations is tricky.

It's a more constrained interpretation of attention than you're advocating for, since it follows the "attention as associative memory" perspective, but the general idea of test-time optimization could be applied to other mechanisms for letting information interact non-linearly across arbitrary nodes in the compute graph.

[1] https://arxiv.org/abs/2501.00663

[2] https://arxiv.org/abs/2504.13173

[3] https://arxiv.org/abs/2505.23735