[ntnsndr]

Remove all the xfce design elements you don't like. Ytou can even use a borderless theme, eg https://github.com/ushioichi/borderless-xfwm-theme

I added i3 so everything is on the keyboard.

XFCE is great because it lets you put it in the background. The GUIs are there when you need them, but it is just as happy if you don't.

[loughnane]

This is precisely my point of view as well.