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acron0 | 1 month ago

We are optimising for reducing loneliness, remember.

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aleph_minus_one|1 month ago

I am of course aware of that.

But reducing loneliness is just a means to an end. My point is that there exist a lot of rewarding things that you can do alone at home, which may give you a hapiness malus because of the loneliness, but also a happiness bonus because you like the activity.

If a solution to reducing loneliness shall be sustainable, it better increases the happiness or rewardingness overall, too. Otherwise you see loneliness as a problem, but see the alternatives as being the worse options, i.e. by rational choice, the loneliness will not be reduced.

pbhjpbhj|1 month ago

You can be happy, well maybe content, but still lonely. It sounds like you're just trying to optimise your happiness, which is fine for you.