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pseudosavant | 1 month ago

I've recently become a convert to this kind of thinking. The person invited the public to join in when they decided to have a public speakerphone call. If they don't want my responses or laughter, they get annoyed and stop the behavior I was finding annoying in the first place.

I don't even have to act like I'm bothered by it, or that I find their behavior offensive. They change their behavior because they are bothered by mine.

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onethought|1 month ago

How is that different than two people talking in person? Do you interrupt them as well?

itishappy|1 month ago

Yup. Online too! I have no qualms about adding my two cents to any loud public conversations.

stavros|1 month ago

Do you think having your conversation on speakerphone in public is the same as talking to someone?

mezyt|1 month ago

A half conversation is a lot more disruptive because your brain try to fill in the gap of information.

lxgr|1 month ago

If their voices sounded shrill/unnaturally amplified/too loud, definitely. Listening to an annoying conversation on speakerphone is 10x more annoying than when it's face-to-face.