People don't flag comments because of tone, they flag (and downvote) comments that violate the HN guidelines (https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html). I skimmed your comment history and a ton of your recent comments violate a number of these guidelines.
Follow them and you should be able to comment without further issue. Hope this helps.
alex1138|1 month ago
They do flag because of tone, or else outright things that don't fit with their agenda
(What I posted was very substantive)
grayhatter|1 month ago
alex1138|1 month ago
Because... that's not how it should work? And it makes something of a case for antitrust?