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OP here!

i am actually very anti-notification (almost all are disabled; i use the iphone "notification summary" feature to get them delivered a few times a day only).

i do want to be on top of things and hate the feeling when i've double-booked myself or promised someone something that i forget. (i don't catalog everything in my fridge; the example was for a "deep freezer" i keep in the back room. this is super common for most suburban households but maybe lost on international audiences)

i am a normal level of busy and i think i was trying to have a bit of fun with creating things with a very low threshold for how good they had to be. i'm not bothered by everyone's speculations about me — i wanted to provoke some conversation — but this really is just about a bit of joy and building things i use every day makes me happy. people think it's cool that my calendar events make themselves.

hope this context helps :)