[rc5150]

"But don't expect standing ovation is my very subtle point."

that's the exact reasoning why parents who complain about how hard it is to be a parent get no sympathy from you. You blew a load in somebody (or had a load blown into you) and another human popped out. That's a choice you made for yourself, nobody forced you to, and there is a big giant swath of people out there who couldn't care less.

[iugtmkbdfil834]

I sense there is some confusion, but I can't pin point where it is coming from. Is it possible you are not replying the person you thought you were?