[grunder_advice]

Yeah, I don't think you're going to have much luck with that mentality.

Personally, I cannot think of a worst hell than having to be married to somebody who was forced to be with me. Yikes.

[mrbadguy]

Arranged marriages are not the same as forced marriages. Your family simply plays matchmaker and it’s up to the prospective couple to decide whether they want to be together.