[skerit]

> Most of my contacts made the switch, and I’m now at roughly 95% Signal for day-to-day conversations

Years ago, I set up a Matrix server. I got some people to migrate, but ultimately even my husband stopped using it because the UI and accessibility of all the applications was so poor (and he has very bad eyesight, so this was a dealbreaker)

Looking for another alternative, I ended up with Telegram. It was pretty open, easy to work with, had great UI and even a ton of funny stickers and emojis, so I got nearly all my friends to migrate. I did NOT go for Signal because I do not need end-to-end encryption all the time, and having all the same conversations available on my desktop as well as on my phone was important, and still is. Unfortunately, it's also run by a severe weirdo.

So yeah, I'm not really sure what to use now.

[Insanity]

Telegram is almost on the opposite end of the spectrum of Matrix & Signal so I wouldn’t really consider it an alternative.

[Klonoar]

Their text explicitly acknowledges and waives away the security concerns for themselves.

[pavel_lishin]

How so? I genuinely don't know, despite casually using both.

[justsomehnguy]

It,s quite clear what you never used it. UX wise it's one of the best clients and probably in the top 3 network-wise.

[Arathorn]

On the Matrix accessibility side, Element X has improved loads over the years - https://element.io/blog/helping-to-get-everyone-in-their-ele... and https://element.io/blog/element-is-accessible-by-design/ etc.

[ezst]

Same, years ago, I set up a Matrix server, because it was advertised as the-new-XMPP (and I had done XMPP as a user, a long time before, and thought it had been quirky enough to warrant a successor protocol).

What I found with Matrix was the same terrible experience you describe, so I gave old XMPP a new look, and it's been great and continuously improving since. I sleep much better at night having my whole family using XMPP over a self-hosted ejabberd than I can using Matrix to talk with them (and synapse... Forget using synapse federated).

[simgt]

Recently came across FluffyChat (https://fluffy.chat/), which works on matrix and has funny stickers and emojis ;)

[WD-42]

I've been using fluffychat for over a year. It's a nice interface and the client I used to convince less technical friends and family to give Matrix a try. Unfortunately major functionality like being able to send images becomes broken for long periods of time https://github.com/krille-chan/fluffychat/issues/2497

[ezst]

Matrix has gotten to a complexity threshold that makes it near-impossible to have independent client/server implementations. Element is terrible, and many contenders are better in a way or another, but all lack some essential feature to turn them into practical alternatives.

[fuglede_]

And for desktop apps, Cinny has custom emoji/sticker support. Would be nice if they played better with Element though.

[Ar-Curunir]

Signal supports desktop clients now, no?

[toastal]

How are you framing this? It’s an Electron app so it exists but doesn’t integrate or perform great. Last I recall you still were required to provide a SIM to sign up & you needed an iOS or Android primary device to even use the desktop client. Can you use a standalone, fast desktop application like you can these other protocols? I would say no, so “support” has shades of gray to it.

This is how I got kicked off LINE… they had a Chromium app that I could use tethered to an app, they disabled support for LINE Lite (which had light/dark theme, E2EE, texting, voice/video calls, debatable trackers (Firebase), even stickers & sending a location @ 8MiB instead of 200MiB+ of the “heavy app”), I refused to “upgrade” as it was a downgrade to me, & since I was no longer registered with a “primary” device, I was booted from the network. I don’t think I want these mobile-duopoly-required apps to be my primary means of communication with folks—especially now that my primary phone isn’t Apple or Google (luckily Open Whisper lets WhisperFish exist).

[jeroenhd]

Has done for years now, but its desktop support is far inferior to even Matrix chat clients. It works in a pinch but you have to lower your standards quite a lot to use it as a true alternative.

[Flere-Imsaho]

Telegram is very much more about IRC / Discord public chat rooms, rather than private group chats.

[next_xibalba]

> Unfortunately, it's also run by a severe weirdo.

Marlinspike, Acton, or someone else? Why does this matter?

[andrewflnr]

I think they're talking about Telegram for that part.

[HumblyTossed]

Over the years there's been a couple of apps that have tried to use email protocols as the backend for chat. I really wish those had gained popularity - there's a lot of overlap with messaging and email.

[ibejoeb]

Isn't that just email then? I mean I guess you could wrap a bubbly UI around it, but you're not getting around the latency and spam. Those seem like dealbreakers to me.

[01HNNWZ0MV43FF]

DeltaChat supposedly does that but I've never tried to interoperate it with email

[h4kunamata]

Telegram is the only service I join that as soon I did it so, I received SPAM, added to random groups and you name it.

It has to be the worst service out there, better stick with WhatsApp over Telegram period.