[ozgrakkurt]

Couldn't agree more with the personal relationship point you made.

The relationship IS the goal 100%. It takes a lot of effort and sacrifice. It doesn't come easy.

Also in my experience, passion is there to make going through the difficulties a bit easier. Love isn't found but built over time.

Not sure if this is completely different from relationship with institutions. Both sides have to be aware that a good relationship will not just "happen". Have to deliberately work for it.

I experienced this kind of thing in some places I work. Management is wondering why the employee isn't "committed"/working-hard so they feel on the edge. And the employee feels the same way but the other way around.

IMO 80% of the responsibility falls on the company in this case. But the dynamic is very similar.