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Make-A-Wish Foundation Turns San Francisco Into Gotham for 5-Year-Old Batkid

193 points| nrayamajhee | 12 years ago |wired.com | reply

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[+] mark_integerdsv|12 years ago|reply
I really felt some strong emotions while reading through this.

It's amazing.

The news spot just has to the the cherry on top. So happy for this kid that he had an awesome day.

It does restore some faith in humanity to see things like this.

...however...

I hate myself for being the contrarian in this case but as a South African and having worked with one or two NGOs that work with sick people in general, including kids with AIDS I can't help but wonder how far the budget and effort put into this could have been stretched.

Granted, there are plenty aid organizations and shit tons of money (much of it dollars) that are pushed into Africa but if you've seen what's happening here first hand it's very hard not to think about what could be done with every single cent and every ounce of human energy.

I remember coming home one day after seeing some particularly gut wrenching stuff and not even being able to look at myself. The food in my plate. The clothes on my back. My kids. A room full of useless fucking toys...

It's the wrong lens through which to view these things. I know that in my head but my heart is breaking all over again as I types this on several fucking thousand rands worth of smartphone.

[+] cwilson|12 years ago|reply
The money that went into this endeavor was nothing compared to the compassion and outreach completely fed by the people of this city. All of the media and news you see is a result of grass roots movements, social media, and general kindness. Not some corporate sponsor.

My point is, this is hands down an act of kindness by an entire city. There isn't an evil plot behind it.

This makes me very happy, and it should make you happy too.

[+] derefr|12 years ago|reply
Here's a lens that might be helpful to view this through: seeing these kinds of personal, touching results encourages philanthropy--we're "spending money to make money," so to speak. We just need to channel that generated emotion and desire-to-help through the cold, calculating hands of organizations like GiveWell. :)
[+] protomyth|12 years ago|reply
Don't let yourself go down that road of thinking. If you judge every happiness done for others based on how many other people it could have helped, you will eventually suck all the joy out of every endeavor of yourself and others. Weighing souls will weigh down yours.

On a purely money note, Make-a-wish got a lot of publicity and goodwill which will help in other fund raising efforts so they can help even more people. It was an extremely good (and common) trade for a NGO. For example, the cost of holding an art show generally pays dividends in getting money to teach more artists. The "show" pays for a lot of "nuts & bolts".

[+] tn13|12 years ago|reply
Whenever I meet someone who asks for donations in the name of sick kids I politely refuse. I am always skeptical as to where that money actually goes. But when I read this report I am willing to donate more money to this organization.

The story is not just heartwarming it has served number of purposes. I got to know more about the disease, the organizations involved and most importantly it has motivated me to give money from my pocket to beat the real nemesis of that young batkid.

[+] rwallace|12 years ago|reply
Judging an act by its consequences seems like a frightfully hard-nosed, rational thing to do; the problem with trying to put it into practice is that we tend to end up judging only by the superficially obvious consequences and ignoring the more important long-term effects.

It's easy to compare the nominal cost of this event with the idea that it only helped one person, but the latter isn't actually true; it obviously brightened the lives of thousands of people, and not just with shallow entertainment but with the opportunity to lift their gazes from the mud and look at the sky, to reflect for a moment on their place in the world. I have no idea how to calculate the benefit from that, but it wouldn't surprise me if it greatly outweighed the cost.

As you say, truckloads of aid money has been pouring into Africa for decades, and not only has it not produced the promised results, it has been argued by people familiar with what actually happens there that it does more harm than good: http://www.spiegel.de/international/spiegel/spiegel-intervie...

By contrast, smartphones are connecting Africa to modern civilization, and that's something that might actually make a positive difference. There is after all no intrinsic reason Africans can't provide food and water and medicine for themselves just as people do in Europe and America and large parts of what used to be the Third World. What's missing is knowhow and organization. A truckload of money dumped into projects that feel good to rich Westerners won't provide those things. Putting the knowledge of humanity at the fingertips of individual Africans just might.

And yet those phones weren't paid for by charity, because the people running charities are mortal and fallible; they just can't see that far ahead. The phones were paid for primarily by rich Westerners buying them as toys.

The world is more complex than any of us can know. Enjoy your toys with a clear conscience.

[+] wyclif|12 years ago|reply
I got a bit of a dust mote in my eye while reading this and had to step outside of the workroom for a short break.
[+] frank_boyd|12 years ago|reply
It's nice to help suffering people.

The recurring pattern I see, however, is: We single out 0.001% of all cases, do something extraordinary, and make a big fuss about it in the media. All this to make us feel good about ourselves. What we don't want to fix though, are the real causes of the problems, because that's way less pleasant to do.

[+] cududa|12 years ago|reply
What are you talking about?

"What we don't want to fix though, are the real causes of the problems"

I'm pretty sure a crap ton of people are working on solving "the problem" aka cancer. The world is filled with shitty things, can't people create the occasional extraordinary experience/ scenario just to make people feel good?

[+] aaron695|12 years ago|reply
Sigh. Since when did HN become Upworthy and the glurge that went with it.

A child life is probably worth less than $1000, rather than that new TV I can assure you the money to an average charity will save a childs life.

Yet throw in Batman and a whole lot of Redditors and we've saved the world.

Hey it's better than a normal street parade / pissing it up at a pub. But lets get a grip on reality.

[+] rschmitty|12 years ago|reply
If this angers you so much perhaps you should organize with other like-minded readers and do something about it?
[+] 8ig8|12 years ago|reply
Shared the photos and story with my wife. We both had tears running down our face. We both pictured our son as batkid. People are good.
[+] geedy|12 years ago|reply
People are good, and sometimes we don't give enough credit. :)
[+] ck2|12 years ago|reply
I can't help but think this is mostly for the adults watching, just like setting up "santa".

I suspect the kid would have been just as happy running around a yard or his block with "batman" for a whole afternoon.

It seems like he didn't even have enough time to take in each event.

Still, I hope it gives him great memories instead of being ill and in the hospital.

[+] pshin45|12 years ago|reply
Make-A-Wish Foundation, doing things that don't scale :P
[+] sdoering|12 years ago|reply
Why does everything has to scale? Why can a good deed not go unpunished (like in some comments here)?

Your comment reminded me of one famous quote from the ring, the yews gave Oskar Schindler[1]: "Whoever saves one life saves the world entire."

Some people (ok, a lot of people) just made the miserable life of one little child a lot better. And they made their own lifes better, by showing what can be accomplished together. What is so bad in that, that it warrants these snarky remarks here on HN? That I really do not understand.

[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oskar_Schindler#After_the_war

[+] cia_plant|12 years ago|reply
I clicked the comment link for this story just to see how HN readers would make this simple feel-good story into some cynical circle-jerk. Was not disappointed.
[+] mark_integerdsv|12 years ago|reply
My comment would almost certainly be one that you are referring to.

I think you need to justify how it is a cynical comment please?

To me, the truly cynical thing here is that you can't seem to understand that Batkid's entire life is a lot more comfortable and pleasant than that of a great number of sick children around the world.

The fact that so much that could have gone so far was spent on making an already (relatively) privileged existence fun for a day because of the air time it generates - is hideously cynical.

I really do not wish to be overdoing the guilt trip here, I'm just a little baffled by your definition of cynicism.

[+] bnegreve|12 years ago|reply
I just read the comments, some people like it, some other discuss whether it really makes sens. What's wrong with that?
[+] doorhammer|12 years ago|reply
Seconded

I did see some cheery responses that were nice, though. So there's at least a little hope.

[+] bsandbox|12 years ago|reply
Making endeavors like this scale is an interesting problem. On the surface, this is inherently unscalable, but it does prove that a novel idea can spark latent compassion to create something truly awesome. The obvious thought is applying something like Batkid to third world cases, but it would end up helping out a few cases in the millions that exist. A cynical view is to look at this as an example of first world individualism triumphing over the greater need of larger populations, but I think it's worth thinking about it the other way round - how might it be possible to use compelling stories like this to solve a larger population of problems.
[+] codezero|12 years ago|reply
How much did this cost the city? It's adorable but blocking streets off and crowd control costs money.
[+] chris_wot|12 years ago|reply
Bruce Wayne had it covered.
[+] alan_cx|12 years ago|reply
And how much of that money could have been used to treat other equally worthy people suffering in equally hard ways?
[+] gulfie|12 years ago|reply
So how can we get the same people motivated to work for a cure?
[+] Aloisius|12 years ago|reply
Out of curiosity, exactly how would these people work for a cure?

It can't be money, the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society is shockingly well funded to the tune of a quarter of a billion dollars in 2012 and that's just one of the dozens of nonprofits not to mention all the leukemia research organizations. Surely you can't mean for them to drop what they are doing and get a Ph.D. and go into research?

[+] yetanotherphd|12 years ago|reply
I think one issue with this sort of thing is people feel like they either have to feel warm, positive emotions about this, or prove that it is somehow harmful or at least not beneficial.

I assume there is some small benefit to this kind of action, but I don't have any emotional connection or interest in it.

[+] twoodfin|12 years ago|reply
It's a good thing this was posted to hn, otherwise I never would have heard about it.
[+] codex|12 years ago|reply
Compassion begets compassion. For this reason alone this event was beyond price.
[+] negamax|12 years ago|reply
This is the only article I am going to share on social media in a long time.
[+] sinan|12 years ago|reply
But what would other kids think? Wouldn't they get jealous?
[+] groupthinker|12 years ago|reply
This submission is off-topic and is not "Hacker News". Moderators, please delete.