[throwawaycoder]

It sounds to me as if you don't have a lot of experience. Neither have I, but I have met women who flirted with other men so that their boy-friends could get in a fight with them. Or women who would claw your eyes out because you hit their boy-friend, even if the same boy-friend hit them a minute ago.

But why do I bother - just go ahead and do what you feel is right. Maybe your feeling for such situations is simply better than that of other people.

How many times have you tried to interfere so far?