Show HN: I paid an engineer $4k to build a dating site
24 points| ngm1985 | 11 years ago
I've had some experience with website development, but I'm not technical whatsoever. So I went on craigslist (in Los Angeles) to look for an engineer to build a dating site.
Luckily, I found someone amazing. We agreed on $4,000 in milestone payments and $6,000 in potential bonuses if the site does well.
We recently launched the site and would love your feedback. I know the design is lacking, but any feedback would be appreciated!!
8_hours_ago|11 years ago
- The "Home", "Sign In" and "Sign Up" links at the top of the main page don't go anywhere. The "Home" link is unnecessary. The "Sign In" and "Sign Up" links should go to anchor tags at the sign in and sign up forms.
- The Birthdate drop down menus are broken for me on the sign up form. I only see a vertical scroll bar when I select the day and month, and I have both vertical and horizontal scroll bars when I select the year.
- The What I Want page should initially has nothing selected in each box. I think each option should start populated with "Anything". That way if I don't care about pets one way or another, I don't have to waste a few clicks setting it. Or do I need to actually change an option from "Choose Option" to "Anything"? It's unclear.
- When I finally select everything in the "What I Want" page, the red text "Please choose an option for each field." doesn't go away. Did I not select everything well enough?
- At the bottom of the "What I Want" page you have every percentage listed from 16/16 to 0/16. Is that really necessary?
- The Profile page has square images on top of other users, but when I resize my browser window too small horizontally they're squished into rectangles. In addition, those images are huge! It took a few seconds for them to load the first time I visited the page. They should probably be resized. Also, perhaps profile images should be stored as jpegs instead of pngs?
- Search form, perhaps it should be pre-populated with the options that I chose on the "What I Want" page? And again, even when I have every option selected, it still says "Please choose an option for each field."
- On someone's profile, under their Personality Type, there's a yellow circle that on mouseover says "They don't have your preferred personality type, but keep reading!". What? When did I specify a preferred personality type?
On a whole, it looks well done for a MVP. Some other people have criticized the lack of design, but personally, I like the minimalist look. These are just first impressions, I hope they help.
FYI, I'm using Firefox 29.0 on Linux.
ngm1985|11 years ago
I have all your comments saved and noted. To make a few responses:
I was worried people wouldn't understand the message filtering feature, so I probably overdid it with the 16/16 thru 0/16 copy.
The "Please choose an option for each field." copy is permanently there, but I can see why it's confusing after filling everything out so we'll have to change this.
The browser resizing has been a bit of a struggle. We're making it a responsive site, but we'll keep working on it.
Overall, thank you for your detailed response. It definitely helps. And I appreciate your comment on the minimalist look!
tzaman|11 years ago
ngm1985|11 years ago
leepowers|11 years ago
Second, I'd allow users to search before registering an account. But contact details are withheld until account creation. That way I can verify the efficacy of the matching and filtering functions before paying money. Or put another way - if I find someone interesting, I'm more likely to whip out my credit card and pay to get in contact with that potential special someone.
ngm1985|11 years ago
How it's different:
We let you filter your inbox with the exact same criteria as the search criteria (Ethnicity, Body type, Height, etc). This is mainly for women who normally receive a lot of messages on other sites.
We also let you know if you meet a certain threshold of what someone else wants (whatever criteria they are choosing to filter their inbox with). This is mainly for men so they don't waste time sending messages to women definitely not interested in them.
When all the other dating sites brag about number of messages being sent, we want to be the exact opposite. We're all about sending LESS messages.
wiseleo|11 years ago
You have too much tiny text. Your signup form is not distinctive. Even adding a class of "bg-success" to your div with the id of "signup-form" (that will give it a greenish background) would be somewhat helpful. Spend some time reading http://getbootstrap.com and you'd be surprised how much you better you will get in a few hours once you understand which classes are available to you. It has a lot of decorator classes that will transform your colorless UI instantly.
Since you provided no test user credentials and I am not willing to skew your metrics by registering, I can't evaluate how the site functions for a registered user.
You featured a blog post very prominently and wrote it in a self-deprecating style. While I appreciate the creativity, that does not help in increasing conversions.
My biggest concern
I am not sensing product direction besides your innovative mailbox that filters by intent. This feels like "I wanted to try building a dating website and didn't think about a unique hook".
I agree that traditional dating sites have abysmal messaging. This can be a good hook.
ngm1985|11 years ago
Appreciate the UI feedback. We'll do some touch ups to liven it up a bit with the help of getbootstrap.com.
I'm a little bummed about the blog post not making at least a decent impression. My humor is all I have! (the blog post referenced - http://blog.percodate.com/we-built-a-dating-website)
The hook without a doubt is the messaging. The goal is to give women relief and men more time back/focus on who to message.
Thank you again!
rwhitman|11 years ago
Is that the space you want to compete in? Are you positioned to win here? Step back and look at the big picture.
leepowers|11 years ago
abimaelmartell|11 years ago
Or buy a premade template and adjust it to your needs (if you want the cheap).
selamtux|11 years ago
drawing first, writing later.
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