arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Rajeev Motwani, Google founders' professor and early investor, dies
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arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Why Programmers Suck at CSS Design
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: How to cause moral outrage from the entire Internet in ten lines of code
http://valleywag.gawker.com/5032989/journalists-do-it-for-th...
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: [2003] Get Rich Slowly
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: How a month and a half on Paxil taught me to love being shy.
If you are male, the best "drug" for social anxiety is weightlifting. (No, you don't need to be a huge-ass body-builder-douche, if you don't do 'roids you probably won't be one, you'll look normal and athletic.)
I think probably it's all about testosterone - weightlifting increases the levels of those and thus makes us feel more "manly" and that just blows away the insecurity.
I'm not a scientist, so that testosterone stuff is just a guess, but it was amazing how at the age if 17 it transformed me from a shy, withdrawn, never-look-people-in-the-eyes teenager to a "real man" - relaxed, confident, one who talks to people as a real equal. Much of social interaction has hidden traces of very primitive instincts behind it: the sexual instinct and the fight instinct, and weightlifting gives you confidence in both (even though you would still be beaten to a pulp by any 120 pound Thai Box fighter, but that doesn't matter, you probably don't actually need to fight: it's just the feeling) which transforms into a relaxed and confident social interaction.
Another way to put it is that as an Aspie, I always felt alien from both the world and from my body. My idea of "me" is something in my head who tries to drive my body with a remote control and it just doesn't work well. Weightlifting got me to connect with my body, it made by body a part of the "me", and through the body as a medium, it made me connect with the world and other people. (Probably it's something about strenghtening some under-used neural pathways that connect the "self" parts of the brain with other parts.)
Now at 30 I'm often too lazy to do it, but whenever I do it for a few months, my Aspiehood just goes away.
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: How to get a merchant account - a series of hoops
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Poll: Where are you from?
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Ask HN: Please review my webapp: Da Button Factory - create shiny buttons
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Technology is Heroin
If you think of it, everything people do is quite remarkably purposeless.
Why does life exist?
Why do you exist???????
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: X# - XML Oriented programming language
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Ask HN: Anyone want to work through SICP together?
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Source code of the file with the Zune bug (starts on line 249)
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: No New Language In 2009; New Habits Instead
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Now you can choose which SATs you want colleges to see and which you don't
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Tell HN: Merry Christmas
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Coding Horror: Hardware is Cheap, Programmers are Expensive
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: Apple 'Netbooks', Eh?
This smells like the dreaded "Trusted Computing" with its hardware engraved DRM.
Until people are free to install whatever apps they want to install & use any operating system of their choice; Apple or any company that controls what software can be installed isn't going to derive much success from their computers.
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: After Credentials
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: How Difficult is it to Write a Compiler?
arjungmenon | 17 years ago | on: SC, an s-expression based front end to C
Quote from their website: BitC is a new systems programming language. It seeks to combine the flexibility, safety, and richness of Standard ML or Haskell with the low-level expressiveness of C.