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ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
So in my perspective, no one can make us =).
But - we can choose to be. Or choose not to be. I.e we, individually say if we are or are not. It is our choice.
I choose to be (as much as I can, and I may not be able to do much in these circumstances but I try in others of my life as much as possible and I dedicate most of my time to others).
I choose to be because I believe this builds a better planet and it encourages help rather than a "I'm not helping i'm not responsible. Find the person to blame and make them pay". But how do we ever find the person to blame?
Is it the refugee coming over in hope with their family for a better life? Is it the people fighting in the war? The people who started the war?
Who should pay the price?
In my studies of humanity and cultures the place that most inspired me was an island where every child was taken care of by every family on that island. There were no barriers, parents treated every kid as their own.
So, forgive my post if it has come across as convincing people they should take responsibility that was not the case. I was asking a genuine question in the sense, why can we not help? Why does responsibility matter really?
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
In a few years time I dream i'll be able to provide much more housing than space on my couch. There are alternatives to just giving housing.
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
I have previously taken people off the street, three times. I do not currently have anyone living in my home because I have moved back to my disabled Mums which is a 3 bedroom house already with 5 people living there.
Why am I living at my Mums?
I give 100% of my time to helping others and i'm in the process of starting a social enterprise to develop technology to help others in a variety of situations. We've already designed and nearly finish an app to help women in domestic violence situations, tools to help kids with dyslexia, tools for autism. Every penny will go back into creating more tools and technologies to help.
Then I can buy an Island. Yep, i'm not even kidding that's my ambition.
"What percentage of your income are you donating to support refugees? Why is that percentage not higher?" - I currently give no funds to refugees because I put all of my funds into creating other projects to help others in different domains. I feel that investing in these which will generate more income will give more income to help more people.
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
I think you misunderstood my point and took it too literally: who cares who's responsible. We can still help people unconditionally without expecting anything in return but within reason.
"Hey man, you're going through a really hard time at the moment. It's not my fault what has happened to you and it's not your fault this has happened to you either. But I would be happy to help you regardless."
Now, wouldn't that be an amazing place to be? Well done Germany, Iceland and the others.
--- Slightly off topic There's videos of locals all going up and greeting refuges and offering toys, food, donations. I can't imagine how amazing it must feel after years of hardship and death on your door to see happy faces greeting you with open arms. That right there would give me hope and a strong feeling of wanting to do everything possibly to repay the people who helped me in my desperate time of need.
P.s I wasn't a refugee, but I did grow up in refuges as a child and I met and spoke to refugees. This was going back 18 years ago now, much has changed but I met the most incredible and inspirational people there.
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
I have also got chatting to a homeless dude who turned out to be an artist. He carried on a pen drive pictures he'd created over the last few years but he had no computer access and no way to get them. I said i'd take a look and the next day went into a shop and printed every single picture, paid for it and gave it to him.
I have no problem giving to strangers and not getting anything in return. I get something back naturally, I feel happier that they are happier.
Hence i'm in the process of starting a social enterprise =).
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome
But what's the fear about letting refugees into the country? Why are people so scared of this? (genuine question =))
It seems to me the only countries whom are scared are the ones who think they're the best, greatest and fear loosing that status. This sounds like idk...country ego? lol.
ashleyp | 10 years ago | on: Refugees Welcome