inglorian | 16 years ago | on: I'm on a deserted island. How can I tell which plants are poisonous?
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inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Sorry, Vegans: Brussels Sprouts Like to Live, Too
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: The Harry Potter Economy
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Hobbyists Use Etsy to Trade Day Job for Hard Work
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Mockingbird: New tool for building mockups, written in Cappuccino
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: The Human Body Is Built for Distance
This doesn't seem to jive with the persistence hunting theory, since meat is one of the worst fuels for distance running (or any endurance sport).
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Oh Yea, There's Also A New Apple Remote
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Why Idling Mind is Mother of Invention
Wow. That sounds insanely annoying. This suggests that, since we don't realize when we've hit upon a cool idea, we should just write down everything we're daydreaming about. Imagine having to read through all of that junk just to potentially find something good you might have thought of.
I suspect that the premise is wrong - we're probably not all constantly having genius ideas that we don't recognize in between daydreaming about dinner and youtube videos. If an idea comes up while I am daydreaming that is useful and relevant, I almost always realize it, even though I may not always write it down. Cultivating the habit of writing these ideas down is useful and necessary, but I don't see how a constantly-pinging app would help with that.
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Don't start a restaurant - lots of startup parallels
>>Bill Kim’s [fast-casual] restaurant...“We’re going to serve really good, vibrant flavors. It’s going to be $15. [Customers are] going to be in and out. I’m not going to serve dessert or drinks..."
In other words, make what people want, make it really damn good, and strip away everything else. We know this works for startups, but I wonder if it will work as well for (higher-end) restaurants, which generally try to sell an atmosphere and experience.
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: If you think you haven't found your passion...
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Running Goes Barefoot
When I had issues with my hiking boots on the Appalachian Trail, I took up barefoot hiking and noticed an immediate change in how I stepped: more on the balls of my feet and less on my heels. And you'd be amazed what your feet can get used to; the first two weeks were hell, but about a month later the rocky, sharp, debris-covered ground didn't bother me at all and in fact I had LESS foot fatigue than I experienced while wearing boots.
You do get some serious calluses though, which as a female I was less than happy about...
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: Ask HN: How do you stay (somewhat) healthy?
inglorian | 16 years ago | on: HN: share your unneeded Google Wave invites
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inglorian | 17 years ago | on: Confessions of an Entrepreneur's Wife
inglorian | 17 years ago | on: Ask HN: How much do you exercise a day/week?
inglorian | 17 years ago | on: The Eligible Bachelor Paradox
>>They may hate sex, but they do it
I don't know ANY women who hate sex itself. Perhaps the man has gotten lazier as well, in regards to sex?
>>They go to the gym...if they become a fat slob the guy will leave
Women's bodies are not the only ones that deteriorate. Are all of the men of your acquaintance perfectly fit as well? Furthermore, many women's bodies change in unexpected ways after childbirth...it is entirely normal to take up to a year post-breast feeding to recover, and that is provided that the women has time away from the child to exercise.
>>They act nice
As another woman on the thread mentioned, it is not only women who can be petty in relationships. Her "bitchy" behavior is almost certainly at least partially the husband's fault.
Perhaps the husband began working more hours, which combined with childcare, left the couple no time to be together?
It cannot be denied that marriage is hard. But it is far from impossible, and far from unsatisfactory when done properly. However, it takes work on both sides to maintain and adapt. I am not denying that the woman causes problems of her own, but relationships are rarely broken just by the fault of one person. You are probably getting a biased account because you are hearing it from the husband's perspective. Their wives may have things to say that would surprise you.
inglorian | 17 years ago | on: The Eligible Bachelor Paradox
inglorian | 17 years ago | on: The Eligible Bachelor Paradox
Where I come from, it is taken as common knowledge that you should live together for a significant amount of time before getting married (2+ years is usual). Also, big extravagant weddings are not the norm -- most of my immediate and extended family got married by signing papers in a courthouse, or in a small ceremony at the most.
>>She doesn't need to hide who she truly is, because with the divorce option on the table she hit the jackpot.
I find this surprising also. From what I hear, divorce is terrible for everyone. I can't imagine that so many women marry into a relationship they don't expect to maintain (emotionally and sexually), especially with the way love and marriage are so glorified in the US.
inglorian | 17 years ago | on: The Eligible Bachelor Paradox
>>Every single married guy I know is MISERABLE. The sex pretty much stops within the first couple of years. And the woman gains mega weight, because now that they "got" you, they don't need to keep in shape. And then the whole bitchy wife comes out treating the guy as a second class citizen.
You do seem to know an awful lot of extremely unhappy couples. That's not my experience at all. For example, my parents are in their fifties and still have sex 3+ times a week, a fact I wish I didn't know. I know many other very happily married couples.
Obviously, my anecdotal evidence is just as useless as yours...I don't see how we can generalize that there is nothing to gain by being married.
The divorce rate is 50%...but the failure rate of startups is even higher. Starting a startup and failing can also ruin you financially and burn you out -- should we then assume that it is a stupid idea to start one?
>>Marrying an American woman is pretty much the worst decision you can make.
I am not an American girl, though I recently moved to the states. I am European myself -- and I have met just as many cultured, intelligent, kind American women as European ones. Why do you hate American women so much? Perhaps by "nice European girl" you are imagining an especially submissive woman? Perhaps your experience with American women only extends to suburban princesses and soccer moms?
Either way, I can assure you that your explicit hatred of American women ensures that you will never meet one that you will like.
inglorian | 17 years ago | on: I was driven mad by the Chinese education system
"Objective" tests are best for only the very few things that can be "objectively" measured. Often, they succeed only in rewarding mediocrity and parroting.